Self-dealing

I’m a psychologist who studies couples: People in the happiest relationships do 5 things during weekdays—that most neglect
Sometimes, 24 hours just doesn’t feel like enough. Between work, commutes, and a growing to-do list, it’s easy to get through an entire weekday without really connecting with your partner. But staying close doesn’t require extra time — just intention. As a psychologist who studies couples (and as a husband), I’ve seen firsthand how small […]
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I’ve studied over 200 kids. The 5 signs you’ve raised a ‘highly spoiled’ child—and how parents can undo it
When we picture spoiled kids, many of us think of tantrums over not getting what they want, being told to follow rules or simply facing any sort of inconvenience. But spoiled behavior isn’t just about entitlement or parents giving in — it’s about unmet emotional needs, inconsistent boundaries and a lack of connection. As a conscious […]
Read MoreHere’s the No. 1 phrase used in successful associations, say psychologists who researched 40,000 couples
For the past 50 decades, we have been putting enjoy beneath the microscope. As psychologists, we’ve studied more than 40,000 partners about to start partners remedy. We’ve also been happily married to every other for 35 several years, so we know a issue or two about prosperous associations. Even though every partnership is special, with its possess […]
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I raised 2 effective CEOs and a doctor. Here is the No. 1 talent I would like extra dad and mom taught their kids right now
Creating expertise like curiosity, kindness and psychological intelligence at a younger age will help little ones succeed as older people. But there is just one skill that mother and father aren’t teaching their children more than enough of these days: self-regulation. When little ones study to self-regulate, they far better understand the worth of time […]
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